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Originally Posted by ListenMoreTalkLess
Why is this a matter of right and wrong? I am not telling you that you are wrong. It's like you are shoehorning what is a very complex and multifaceted issue into a teeny tiny box. Good way to avoid the real issues, though, if that is your intent.
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Because as a child that is all that made sense to me (I didn't get love or attention because I was wrong, so I tried to be perfect), and at 23, I'm not that far removed from the trauma of my childhood.
I have come a long way with my black/white thinking, but I don't believe there's as much gray as you claim. And knowing that the issue is complex does not undo 20 years worth of irrational thinking and programming.