when we are willing to change old behaviors here is a good list to start from to help us identify what creates unmanageabilty in our life.
Going over the listing, we ask ourself have we honestly admitted our defects to ourself
as we write out on paper how they have manifested in our lives and created the unmanageability we have known.
Here is a list of
defects:
- Resentment, Anger
- Fear, Cowardice
- Self pity
- Self justification
- Self importance, Egotism
- Self condemnation, Guilt
- Lying, Evasiveness, Dishonesty
- Impatience
- Hate
- False pride, Phoniness, Denial
- Jealousy
- Envy
- Laziness
- Procrastination
- Insincerity
- Negative Thinking
- Immoral thinking
- Perfectionism, Intolerance
- Criticizing, Loose Talk, Gossip
- Greed
Honesty, Hope, Faith, Courage, Integrity, Willingness, Humility, Brotherly Love, Justice, Perseverance, Spirituality, and Service to One Another. (Those are the character
assets we need to acquire.)