((italianchic))),

Welcome to PC. Wow, it doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship to me. I think that you should consider making a decision, do you really want to be with this man the rest of your life? Often people get worse when they get older, and he isn't getting any help. I hope you are not thinking about the house etc. That is just a thing, nothing more, your happiness and well being is what is important here.

You must take care of YOU dear. This man coming from a disfunctional family is showing that he does not respect boundaries. You cant spend the rest of your life trying to mother him either.

(((Hugs)))
Open Eyes