I know you are both right. I dont know what I am doing, I am taking every day, day by day. Its not always bad, most times its good but when its bad its horrible. I know I cant change him. What I did do was spoil him all these years. 11 years I spolied him. But thats no excuse the way he treats me at times. Well I am glad my eyes are open to more now. For years I would deny the problems. Not anymore, now I know what is going on.