It's too bad that he has seemingly moved on so easily..perhaps not, but he displays that in some ways.

I would hope that you could find others to associate with.. and withdraw from the situation altogether... at least until you know what you think and feel about this.

Divorce means there's been a failure. Of course you feel "lost".. you invested a big part of yourself and your life into something that for whatever reason, has been thrown away. I'm sorry.

Yes, there is life after divorce. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off ...get away so you can decide if you want to move on with or without this guy. TC