I think we all eventually realize that there are certain people in our lives of the same sex that we are attracted to. If you don't admit that, you are lying to yourself or you are very, very uncommon. I truly believe that we are ALL bisexual in regards to sexual attraction, not necessarily long-term partnership.

So, your feelings are common and honest even if there are many people out there who still won't admit it. Those that don't admit this are getting more and more rare every day; especially women. Shoot, there aren't many women I know who wouldn't agree that Sofia Vergara is hot. Don't let your feelings dampen your social life. If anything, enjoy your friendship with this girl and let it fuel a wonderful, sexy fantasy secret that only you know about. It's healthy so enjoy.