my T just started wearing glasses. he's always had reading glasses, but his birthday is coming up and I suspect he needs these for driving now because he is wearing them all the time, they are virtually invisible on his face, and he is pretty invested in his appearance - well, as far as any guy who plays hockey can be! But it has changed how he behaves in session! I think he can actually SEE me now! OMG, yes, he actually described my pensive expression yesterday after he said something... hey, I want my money back for all those years he couldn't see! Vain turd. Anyway, now even his opening monologue has changed, he's not so quick to fill in the spaces. Why did I let this go on for so long? When we sat on the kiddie chairs, close together, he told me I was blurry, but I didn't say, put on your glasses, I need you to see me. I have such LOW expectations of people - as long as you're not killing me, i'm happy. that is sad. how do you get over that? that is some low fricking self esteem.