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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
No-no, I would love to be more than friends with him, it is just that he lives and works in Europe. The nature of his work, his monetary situation, and the fact that he cares for his elderly mother preclude frequent visits. I would not be able to go over for a visit either because I am behind on my child/spousal support payments so I have financial priorities other than trips to Europe. That's all. Other than that, sky's the limit.
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In a long distance situation like this it would never likely be more than friends with benefits. He is also still married according to your first post. Traveling is how many men carry on affairs with no intention of divorcing their wives. I'd proceed with caution. You have no way of verifying anything that he says to you being so far away from him. The mushy fuzzy talk often accompanies this as they never really have to commit to you, but some men know that women love to hear this stuff so they say it.
I would dump this guy like a bad habit personally.