...I tell you somethin people friends....we don't do it on purpose!....I mean why the heck would we make things worse.....all I ever done was to make things better but there be such obstacles in our way and these be other peoples ISSUES!!...and I aint kidding here...I never went into anything with a closed complicated heart.

but it seems intrigueingly possible that these others we adore just happen to have an unidentified agenda even they cannot see!