(((hankster))) Thank you for defending me. (((sannah))) I know you are coming from a good place but in the virtual world the words seemed a little bit short
And yes I'm going to ask her to watch my boys every Tuesday for 1.5 hours so I can take a boot camp class

and Hank if she can't reciprocate my 2 hours a week of me watching her son/s then you are right i will have to find a friend that is more giving. Thank you both for caring