PS: The whole idea that "you have to be super aggressive" if you're a lawyer is a load of tosh. Confident, yes . . . but not assertive or aggressive. I'm quiet, I hate confrontation and anger to the point where I start to cry, and because English is my second language I often get a funny accent that makes me nearly incomprehensible . . . I'm still a lawyer
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Psychiatric Survivor
"And just when I've lost my way, and I've got too many choices . . . . I hear voices!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLCfb54e_kM