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Old Jun 23, 2006, 03:38 PM
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No, Rhapsody, I wasn't angry when I said that. I just felt I had to say what was on my mind. I'm sorry if I came across like that. *Hug*

I know a lot of women who give sex for love, like you say, and a lot of men who equate sex with romance. I don't know if they feel an emotional connection with women through sex; from what I've heard according to psychologists (and again, I don't take this as fact, but it's what many say), women bond emotionally through sex, whereas men don't have that connection. But I have heard many men who don't understand why their women are upset with them. The woman will say, "I want romance!" And the guy will say, "Well, I'm trying to be romantic with you, but you keep saying no!" I think many men and many women define romance differently. Sex can be romantic, and romance can include sex, but the two are not the same.

This has nothing to do with MySpace, but staying off-topic for just a second more, I'll offer a tip to those who could use it: If you want your guy to be more romantic, then you need to tell him things you consider romantic. It's not bad that men and women see things differently, but a little communication can help a lot.

Now, back to MySpace...
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