This post is written as if I attacked or devalued your opinion. I did not. Your opinion is appreciated and will always be. What I did was I pointed out a non sequitur internal to your opinion - you were juxtaposing your ways to mine and in doing so you mentioned waiting for a long time before having sex, but since the relationship in question was born 25 years ago one certainly cannot say that more waiting period is necessary. I highlighted that part to be clear. That was the only thing about your opinion that puzzled me, I see your points everywhere else. I am sorry if I hurt your feelings. Your opinion, again, is very welcome.