Thanks for the feedback all. It's very frustrating that he wants to deny it. I talked to him yesterday again and told him how frustrating he was and he said I just handle myself really well so it's hard to agree with it. I will say in his defense that I manage my disorder really well; I've found a really good formula for my medication and a lot of relationship therapy has helped me deal. I still have my struggles though, especially with abandonment. Then he tells me I'm not strong enough because I fall apart when he leaves me (he's a pilot) and it's not fair because I know it's the disorder. I think if he really believed me he'd understand why leaving is hard for me and he'd stop telling me I'm not strong enough!