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What makes abuse? Maybe a technical term I'm looking for but IDK... A previous post started me thinking this about my ex, he was rather mean and controlling. He used his behavior to get me to do things that I didn't want.
But I never considered it abuse just a bad boyfriend. The same thing goes for many people in my past. Many many people I just considered bad people. Sure they did bad things to me but what exactly constitutes abuse? There are so many people, some hurt me pretty deep but I never looked at those as abuse. I only looked at the people who physically hit me repeatedly or those who touched me innappropriately or those who were really harsh speaking with me as abusive. Not the controlling or manipulative ones. What is wrong with people?
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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