The love and connection I feel for my T has been represented by many things and I'm glad for them all. I think in particular I like when something makes me feel taken care of, like moving her chair toward me and leaning toward me, or even taking the new loud-ticking clock off the wall when I mentioned the loud ticking.

I can imagine the sound of a zipper being a taking care of sound. One thing that comes to mind is how we zzzip! kids up in their coats with a loving taking care of demeanor. Another is more adult - T taking care of T (which in turn is T taking care of us, because she will be there for us).