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Jun 24, 2012, 11:01 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Big Mama ~ If my ex wasn't dead, I'd almost think you were married to him. LOL I'm so sorry you're going thru this. I can totally relate. It's miserable when you're married to a completely controlling man, and have to listen to contant complaints & anger. I did that for 26 years, and finally divorced him. I should have done is sooner but i was afraid of him due to his anger issues, and I stayed for the "sake of the kids." That was a stupid thing to do, cause the kids were affected by him too.
I wish I knew how to advise you other than to say that you two DEFINITELY need counseling -- especially HIM. He really needs help for his anger issues and any other problems he may have. I don't know how you've tolerated him this long. And if this continues, I wouldn't blame you if you left. This kind of life isn't really "life." You say he's a "little controlling" but I have a feeling it's more than a LITTLE controlling, right? You never have any money, right? He makes ALL the decisions, right? This isn't a relationship, it's tyranny!  Sounds just like my marriage.
Sweetie, get counseling. You have some decisions to make if you don't. I wish you the very best. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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