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Jun 24, 2012, 11:04 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2012
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Crazyy stuff !
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Originally Posted by leed
hi big mama ~ if my ex wasn't dead, i'd almost think you were married to him. Lol i'm so sorry you're going thru this. I can totally relate. It's miserable when you're married to a completely controlling man, and have to listen to contant complaints & anger. I did that for 26 years, and finally divorced him. I should have done is sooner but i was afraid of him due to his anger issues, and i stayed for the "sake of the kids." that was a stupid thing to do, cause the kids were affected by him too.
i wish i knew how to advise you other than to say that you two definitely need counseling -- especially him. He really needs help for his anger issues and any other problems he may have. I don't know how you've tolerated him this long. And if this continues, i wouldn't blame you if you left. This kind of life isn't really "life." you say he's a "little controlling" but i have a feeling it's more than a little controlling, right? You never have any money, right? He makes all the decisions, right? This isn't a relationship, it's tyranny!  Sounds just like my marriage.
sweetie, get counseling. You have some decisions to make if you don't. I wish you the very best. God bless and take care. Hugs, lee
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