I think unless someone actually REALLY WANTS help, then there is no way that they will win their battle against a mental illness etc. Its the same if you want to quit smoking. If people keep pestering you about quitting and you know its best if you do, GENERALLY most people who try, don't quit.

I think 'Joe' needs help. That's obvious.
I went to that forum and read all of his posts. Its unfortunate that you did post there Darkeyes becaue that little bug has now found himself a whole new lot of 'friends' to watch his back and think your the horrible green goblin. Oh how this world works, I will never understand.

It just makes me narky. Oh yes...we should all endevour to help our fellow friends who have a sickness. But how can you help someone who doesn't want help? He needs a good kick up the cracker (just to make me feel better) and some decent therapy. The kind where he's not allowed to please his fetishes. I think there's a lot more behind 'Joe' then we will ever know. He's truly a sick sick man.

*shrugs*
Yep...... Your a good person Darkeyes. Perhaps a little to trusting and unfortunately this nut caused you pain. But now at least we've all learnt a lesson. Only help those who want to get help. Those who don't, will only play around.

Take care
*hugs*

It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. C.G Jung