Hey Sorry things aren't going well. I don't know what type of promotion this was but honestly, if it in involved more responsibility and supervisory duties then attendance is a very important factor. Maybe later on things will be better and you will be promoted. About the hole you're in... it may just be a matter of perspective. It may not be as deep as you think it is. First thing you might want to do is stop digging the hole deeper If you haven't already told the doctor or anyone that you punched a steel door you might want to get creative about the accident. At least you won't have to pay all the medical expenses or explain to your employer that you punched the door. Either way don't make things harder on yourself. You've come too close to getting where you want to be to give it all up now. Good luck and take care