I find this conversation about clothing very interesting. I work in a special school setting with children who have been severely emotionally, physically and sexually abused. I have always had a hard time with the "dress" of individuals working with these children. I've even spoken up during staff meetings, pleading with people to be aware that what they wear truly affects the children they work with, no matter what age.

I don't feel as though I've been heard on a real level. . .. people might say they understand, but I've seen professional staff and support staff wear tank tops, low cut tops, clothing that reveals their tatoos (I'm not opposed to tatoos, I just think they should be covered when working with children and adults who have emotional/behavioral issues), sheer shirts, bra straps showing, sandles with toes exposed, flip flops, short shorts, ,mini skirts, mini dresses, thongsvisible under clothing, bras visiable under cloting . . . you name it I've seen it!

I'm not saying that we need to legislate or dictate what people need to wear, but what bothers me that we are not aware, not cognitively aware of what some children/people are able to accept on a day to day basis.

It amazes me the number of staff who come to me angry and indignant that a student has invaded their privacy by "looking" or commenting on their attair. I want to say, "Look at what you're wearing!!! " I know that I personally take out my clothing each day before I go to my job and say, "Is this okay? Will this cause distress?" I don't think that's too much to ask of any therapist or person who works with people who have experienced trauma. Just my take on things