sorry i havent posted much lately been struggling this week and find it hard to sit and go through the forums, i have been trying to keep busy running around after everyone, we have a month to go before the school summer holidays and im not looking forward to having the children around all day long, second oldest has finished collage but hasnt got a job to go into, shes not even sure what she wants to do we have encouraged her to sign on as she old enough to get benifits (dole) not the best choice but at least she will have money to pay her way,