Your need to be good to yourself, self compassion and self love. Don't do anything that the same people around that has hurt you, and that are suggesting for you to do. They didn't have the right intentions for you before so what are their intentions are now.
Take all the time in the world to work on what is best for you. Being around the people who has hurt you is like beating yourself and self esteem over and over again. Self doubts, self esteem begins to deteriate because you can't get the answers you want and you begin to beat yourself over it and self-blame will sink in.
This is why I say take all the time you want to help yourself heal so that you can feel better and let go of that hurt. Until you let go of that hurt being around others who has hurt will only pour salt on your wounds.
Take care of yourself first. Take all the time you need hun. You matter!!