(((PFM)))

Are you and your ex in the same state? Do you live relatively close to them, so that you could step in if needed? I don't know about laws, but I'd recommend contacting an attorney or Social Services to see what your options are to make certain that your daughter isn't being abused.

I wish that I had more wisdom to offer....but I've got (((hugs))) for you! I hope that this gets resolved soon and that your daughter isn't being abused. Very best wishes to both of you!