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Old Jun 26, 2012, 06:33 AM
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Originally Posted by rotcehdiaz View Post
Hello Friends! It's my first time here. I try to get some answers for a particular situation I'm having right now, my boyfriend's behavior is so different lately. He begins to be obsessed with control, with what I do and I should do. Recently the relationship has been compromised for his stringent requirements. If I laugh, if I say or make a decition one way or another he always has something to say. Lately he's not happy at all with what I do or what I should do. And when I suggest that maybe I'm not the woman he wants and we should end the relationship, is when he want to talk and reach some agreements ... I'm mentally tired. Any ideas, diagnosis or solution? Need help!!
He sounds like an extremely controlling person. Always remember he can only treat you the way you allow him to. If it was me I'd be out the door, he is using you as a scapegoat and that is not how you show love to someone. Sorry if I'm being too brash, but I usually have a strong opinion!
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