Thank you both for your help. I imagine social services could help even if its just to scare him into not putting his hands on her, maybe they will check on her. He works for the president so i know he doesnt want any problems so hopefully his love for his job at least will stop him. I dont want to ruin him, i just dont want him to ruin her. He lives 14 hours away and i lost my car in an accident 2 years ago and my license was revoked for medical purposes 11 months ago so i cant stop in although i wish i could. Thank you for the hugs and advice, very helpful