Sounds like a plan to me The more information you have, the more possible control you gain...and we all know we can use the feeling of control! I think it's kewl that you and your parents were able to talk about this.

Yes, I agree with the "T's" validation aspect. absolutely. I've even gone so far as to ASK my T to TELL ME, "doctor says..." so I can say my doctor said to.... because sometimes some ppl just don't take your own wishes as solid reasons TC!