Well the title says it all. My T and I have been discussing ways for me to say what I have to say to my abusers (mom, dad, brother). My abusers are very scary and they will turn it back on me if we talk in person. I have tried to reconcile and communicate to them how I feel but they always say, "you were part of it so it's your fault too". Yet they turn around and say no abuse happened.

So, the best way we have found is to write a letter to them and send it. I'm really thinking this is the only way I can say what I have to say. My parents both are not in the best of health and I really would like to have my say before something happens to them.

Has anyone else done this and/or any other ways that have worked? Should I do this?