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Old Jun 26, 2012, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted by coneyislandbaby View Post
I was looking into therapy, but without this raise I can't afford copays. .....
Your descr of your bro sounds about right. Did he seek help? Was he successful?.....
One girl at work saw me crying in the bathroom, but I spoke with her. She isn't telling anyone, in order to protect me and my job.
((coneyislandbaby))

I'm sorry that you can't afford to pay applicable co-pays. Have you tried looking into available therapists in your local area? I did that for 3 years on a very limited income, where my payment was $5/visit. That worked for me!

My brother hasn't ever acknowledged that he has a problem controlling his anger. He instead defends his behavior ~ "better that I hit a wall (or whatever) than her head!" Your description of the event doesn't sound anywhere near as bad as my brother though. I guess that I'm a bit hypersensitive. I have some pretty scary memories from my childhood, due to my brother (and others).

Nice that one of your co-workers isn't going to tell anyone. That's a good sign! I hope that your financial situation improves soon. Maybe something better is waiting around the corner for you.
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