Yea I've heard mixed messages. I've done it but it seems like a chore. I'm not ready to date just yet, but the ex is already online and talking with a girl. We haven't even been broken up for a week yet and he's on the online. Makes me mad and jealous at the same time, I want to see what she looks like and compare myself to her. Bad, huh? Yea, I know. Gonna go it alone for now...