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I decided, I'm going to make an appointment myself, give her the date and time, and if she can't make it then she can't make it but she wont be able to cancel it and I wont feel guilty because she can't make it. I'll take her into consideration when making the appointment but if she backs out, then she backs out and I will still go with my future mother in law. I don't want to hurt moms feelings but I'm not going to be pushed around. T told me today about assertiveness, that sometimes it's ok to say no, sometimes it's ok to do what I want, and I think my wedding is the best place to start. Of course considering my fiances feelings as well. But I'm just going to take charge of this, invite who I want and no longer cave because I feel pressured.
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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