>So a few days ago, my sex drive just exploded out of nowhere - and pretty >much exclusively for men.


Hi,

I'm female. Yes, this happened to me. I had a reasonably strong sex drive as a teen, but it wasn't *polarized* if you see what I mean. I preferred guys, but just barely. It was just less complicated to prefer them. I was looking for a male twin that I could have sex with - so my bf weren't particularly uber manly men. Indie, Alt, Hipster types, usually.

Then when I was about 23-32 BAM. Totally went full on polarized heterosexual. I started being attracted to guys that were quite a bit more *male* than before. In hindsight I associate it with prime childbearing years, but who knows?. At the very end of the phase went along with baby fever (and I wasn't really the type to have baby fever). I'd be walking down the street and it was like a son-to-be was jerking my ovaries and saying, "That guy. He's got the DNA." And my rational mind would be, "Are you kidding? I'd never be happy with him. Wouldn't last, etc." Son to be part of brain: Who cares what you want? I want that genetic code."

This conflict resolved at age 28 when I found a guy that had the qualities of my earlier type and had a male sex thing going on as well.

My sex drive has been affected by where I lived even within CA. It tends to go up in NoCal and down in Los Angeles (too much image, not enough content). Whatever.

Anyway, my sex drive has been quite fluid and all over the place for periods of time. People with sexual orientations and drives that are stable their whole lives weird me out a bit. How can that be? Usually I can trace it to something if I look. It's not accidental IMO.

So, don't worry about it. Take precautions; don't be stupid, but enjoy it.