I have to say especially with your partners friend, he's not a friend. If he was he'd know this wasn't your normal behavior and protected you by telling your husband that your acting weird.
This to me would be a time that I would look into in-patent as I a danger to myself and others. Yes picking up guys puts me in not just immediate danger but longer term danger as in pregnancy, and sti's. This puts my marriage on the line and exposes my husband to life threatening sti's.