Whimsy, i also didn't see your post and you don't have to explain yourself about feeling badly that nobody responded because i feel the same way when it happens to me. You are human and i think its a normal feeling to wonder why nobody had anything to say when you were putting yourself out there and sharing your pain. I realize also that everyone on here is going through something but you still can't help but be hurt. I just recently did the same thing, i posted something and nobody responded and i then posted something about how i'm pushing away people even on here and i don't even remember all that i said but i was upset that nobody responded. People then responded and reminded me that alot of people on here are going through things and sometimes they just observe and don't have it in them to respond. So your not alone my friend. And whimsy i'm embarrassed to say i don't know how to give a hug unless i am replying, that is the only time i see those emotion icons off to the side. I wondered how i could just send a hug. Its probably something so simple right in my face too which will really be embarrassing. I can give you hugs now though !!!! Hang in there i am in your corner Anjelmarie