((Rose Panachee))
That really sucks with what happened to you at work... Many hugs

I have been in a spot as well with it appears due to I am not a male human, I am not worth the bother to be listened too-- which this hurts deeply - I try to remind myself of different factors though if I can..
Perhaps your male college just saw that the Server was not taking no as an answer from you and just stepped in to try best to resolve the situation... It does suck that the Server was not taking your answer - But perhaps if it was a woman that came up, it would be a similar story due to 2 against 1 telling the Server to go away!

About a more than a year ago there was a lady that I worked with, I tried best to get along as best with her until I found she was telling everyone rumors about me which since I am me, and have been here for a long time people did not believe her-- after she left it was found out that the FBI was looking for her and some got questioned if we knew where she was-- I find it really sad that the back ground checks that some hiring agencies do not pop up with such things that are so recent.

((optimize99oh)) hugs to you as well- Hopefully the recent events will settle down after a bit.

As far as me with my thing at work- I am looking for a new place, everyone has been really nice with giving me recommendations and I just feel like- wow... This week at work with supervisor has not been fun.. She is setting up things - Monday was the biggest one..Tuesday was just kid minor things on her part, and Today as I look around I see perhaps she has decided to stop a little... Tuesday was not really a good night for her games, a lot was going on at work that was more important than to get a rolly polly out of the corner way......
I am not sure if she is aware yet of that I am the one that spoke with the janitorial manager about what our supervisor was having us do--- The Janitorial manager actually stopped by and then put her own request in for her team to do the work that our supervisor was putting on us (we are not janitors we do clerical more than anything). This little thing here made me feel so good--- even if my supervisor does not know that it was me that went over to a different dept. and got answers and a job done.. She will be upset when she does find out..
The other co-worker of mine that our supervisor lashed out at due to my email--- they had their meeting and there is another that is to come in a few days.. Not sure what will happen.

The saddest part to me is that our supervisor yells at so many of us that it is becoming more and more a hostile environment- before I left the other day I just simply asked if the problem that occurred on my shift if another co-worker understood it, and in a very defensive way this co-worker (which he never is this way) got really pissy with me at first, and on top of after I said that is fine and ok the first time, they continued to walk towards me and continue explaining on why they did not do the job and almost in ways start arguing with me about it-- I kept my cool due to I could observe with this co-worker his body language and his tones in his voice (it just really reminded me of some others I have seen that are scared to be yelled at for doing something even though they know they should had done their job but will blame it on another person of "not understanding" and just not do the job) This co-worker is not this way usually, and with talking with other co-workers this one i was talking to-- he has been getting a lot of back lash of what is going on...At any rate this morning i did keep my cool, I said a third time and finally that is ok and fine, and told them have a good day and left.
I just wish that some of my co-workers would stand up-- I don't think this is right, and when talking to them, they agree with me but do nothing <-- that there is a some what a trigger for me and I am not sure if i can explain that very well...

It is like when I was little-- people knew abuse was going on, my mom knew of another abuse that was going on., but yet no one that was an adult did anything about it.. Years later when talking to other people about my family - I have gotten statements like "yeah you kids were not treated well and had a lot of bad things happen to you"... it some times out rages me.. and to be in a work place where there are laws against this, and evidence- people are still afraid to speak up.... I don't expect them to. I don't expect much to change at my work place even after all these meetings, i just know I need to go and am trying to get out...

Many hugs to you all-