I, for one and many, don't want you to ever "be quiet now." Please keep sharing. I don't believe anyone was upset with you for your post, just upset for you. I am so glad you were able to keep yourself safe. Losing trusted members of your treatment team must be so very scary! I don't blame you for getting so upset. It likely upset many within as well, which may be where some ideas that you don't necessarily agree with, such as having an affair, may have come from.
Please show yourself lots of gentleness as you get adjusted to these new circumstances. Please let us know how you are? Take care.