Quote:
Originally Posted by novvita
It takes time and healing and, sometimes, realizing that it's done and the only thing to do next is move on, but it DOES and CAN get better.
|
I hope so.
Quote:
|
In the long run, he'll get what he deserves. People will realize what kind of person he is. And hopefully you will be able to take a day at a time and enjoy them as they come.
|
I am not so sure about that. I am not religious, nor do I believe in Karma. I think things are completely random. And in that light, there's very little chance he'll really
get anything.
Quote:
|
I always thought my paranoia was a bad thing -- but it's also good in that I'm less likely to experience similar things again. Call it a security blanket. It seems to work for me, so I'll admit to being paranoid and actually enjoy it!!
|
Well, it
can be.
For me, it goes like this, usually.
I get paranoid about someone, and then I remember that I am prone to projections and paranoia, and think to myself I should give them a chance. What I do is really neglecting my inner feeling, my "gut". Because I can't differentiate what is my own construction, and what isn't.
Usually the person isn't with good intentions, and I get ****ed over.
Either that, or I run and I don't even let relationship to happen.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sannah
Any chance you can get a therapist to help you work through this?
|
Not at the moment. I have no health insurance. And no money to pay for it. I found a great therapist, after a long long time of searching (and crappy ones). No job=no health insurance. No money=no health insurance.
That's one of the reasons I'm here. I am trying to do whatever I can to cope, by myself, until my circumstances change.