Desirae, uh oh, you are in a fix that will take hard work to overcome, but there are people to help you out there. Previous posts covered those resources. I agree, call your local domestic violence hotline and become informed about the nature of abusive relationships and how to get out of them. It takes some planning, they know the ropes, and can hook you up with others in the same boat to talk about it.

To help you start making new friends and expand your personal circle: Is there a park in your neighborhood where other young mothers and kids hang out and play? You might could find friendship and support right nearby and not be stuck being dependant on your family.

I hope you and your kids get out before his abuse escalates.