Thank you all , me and my brother have talked and he says he did it becase i am never upfront with him and because he cares for me. i am extreamly mad still but i forgive him for his overbearing self. I plan on talking to my mother when the topic arises in conversation i try to bring it up in conversation but she seems to not pick it up so i guess in time she will pick up the conversation and talk to me and i'll tell her about my past. and Thank you Harley47, but i have already found out for the most part how he got my password everytime. he went through my e-mail, which i haven't changed my password since i first got it. but if he does it again i''ll be sure to ask you and talk to you about what i can do to protect myself better. Thanks a whole bunch everyone!