Whimsy, I know it can be frustrating when you don't get an instant reply when you're really wanting one. I can make a post and no one will say anything for days. eventually someone will--I've never had a post go completely unrecognized my entire time on this site. I've seen so many people get frustrated and chew others out for not responding. keep in mind that there are hundreds of users on this site looking at hundreds of posts and I know I do not comment on every thread I look at, just the ones where I can say something helpful.

if you're feeling particularly anxious for quick response, check out the chat rooms where there are people in there in REAL time.

this is a very good place to be--please stay and be patient with us.