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Old Jun 29, 2012, 01:16 AM
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Since he KNOWS it bothers you, in MY opinion I think he should STOP. I don't see why he should put you thru any more emotional pain than he has to. He's evidently done enough damage in the past -- why put you thru any more?

Tell him how you really feel. That it really bugs you, and it hurts and you can't help it, but it affects your self-esteem and makes you feel vulnerable. Ask him to please stop.

If he's got any compassion at all, and any commitment to this marriage, he'll stop doing it! And he won't do it ANY MORE either. Just my thought on it, anyway. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee