Thanks 3LB.I know the reply wasn't mean spirited, But I am/was offended bcoz I have no idea where the rage conclusion came from. Does bpd automatically mean spewing verbal filth at our loved ones? My anger has mostly been inward anyway, and the few times it did escape, was a long time ago... I guess I'm just a bit hurt that that was the conclusion drawn from my post. But I'm not at all upset with NYCDL, and thought I'd made that clear earlier.