Well, I need to just hang in there. I havn't seen my exboyfriend now for a month. My councelor told me about what rebounding is. So I want to not involve myself with another man and wanted to know how long I should wait. About a year? Anyway we were together for 9 years and I broke up because I was worn out, (Taking School, Teenage son, Priorities, too tired) Anyway my ex got a new woman and God Bless them, I hope it goes very well. I feel so freed. I just need advice about rebounding. I was told by councelor that until a certain amount of time passes that it is called a rebound relationship. So I thnik that I should not send out any messages that I need a man to be close to (sometimes, I feel that way, but should control myself) Any way, summer is boring without much to do. I'm glad I am in this group. Any stories would be appreciated. Maybe I am finally ready to just stay alone at this time, I don't know. Any ideas or stories about success.