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Originally Posted by Perna
I was startled that you decided to become engaged to a married woman (and now, later, have been engaged for five years without becoming married). It appears you may just be going on, gee, I like this woman, I'll get engaged to her (I have a friend like that who marries the women right away but now has learned to not bother with getting married, just find a woman and give her a house straight away (the one she'd get in the divorce :-)
You seem to always be on the prowl and not settling down. Why do you think that is? Why are you engaged for 5 years and in a position to be looking around again to notice another woman has broken up with her husband, etc. Find a woman, marry her, and get on with working on a marriage instead of messing with "safe" women who either are already married so not free or are content to be engaged for a zillion years. If you want to marry, do so! If you are having trouble with multiple women, all of them popping up at "odd" times, you have a problem with yourself too and your perceptions of who you are and what you want.
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I am not 'on the prowl'. I was married(1992-2000), to a woman I met in school. But when things went sour, both her, and her family, blamed me for all the problems in the marriage. I was finally vindicated, when my ex-wife n' her family admitted, that she had more than physical problems(she ended up having a triple-heart bypass operation last year, for congestive heart failure, something that is seen in someone much older than her. She is only 45). She also has emotional n' intellectual problems as well.
As for being engaged for a zillion years, that is the most depressing thought, I have ever thought, myself. The woman I was engaged to after my marriage, lied about not being able to understand how to fill out divorce forms.
I totally agree with you, about finding a woman n' marrying her. The problem usually is, when they hear about my extensive medical history. They don't want to be responsible, for the possibility that my health might take a turn for the worse, and they would have to call 911.
I know what I want.