I have only ever told one person IRL...I had a botched up one night stand (I'm 25, for social context) last year and I told a friend, who is a sex educator, because I was feeling guilty and I wanted advice. After that, I never talked about it with her again.

I never told my last therapist, even though I ostensibly liked and trusted her. I just didn't want to and didn't really see the point.

This new therapist I've only seen for a month. I don't know if or how I will tell him. I think he might suspect (I brought up sex as Kind of A Big Problem that I want to work on, and he has used the words, "because you don't trust men..." even though I'm pretty sure I never explicitly said so), but he wouldn't push me to say.

I know there's already a thread somewhere about "who did you tell?" but how do you tell? Can I just say, "oh yeah, I know I told you about the black eyes&etc. but there's this other thing, too...sorry, maybe I should have mentioned it when I told you I really don't like sex and think it is disgusting/not fun..."? I still feel like it's sort of pointless.