Thread: What is the "right thing" to do when paranoia strikes?
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Old Jun 29, 2012, 10:12 PM
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It's hard when a partner/spouse does not seem to be on our level or into us when we are having a hard time. I had a bf back in 2008 when my aunt passed away and he was more s*xual with me than actually comforting. "I am so sorry Billi, about your aunt dying", while being amorous and stuff.

That left me feeling even more lonely and even more invalidated and scared and angry about my loss.

I am glad you talked to us.

Billi
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