(((Lisa))))
I am so happy you posted that. I agree with you 100%. My system is my system and while there are similarities no two systems are alike. Insiders come out when they need to or are triggered out. I try to maintain a safe place for them. Respect them and listen to them.
I'm not always very good at it I'm afraid.

I'm still trying to figure things out. A year later, and I'm still not very good at this.
My T says there is no fixed rule about DID or anything else for that matter. Too many factors fall into it.

Again glad you said what you did
w_i