keep looking around for even cheaper calling options; although her country could be the problem on the costs i guess ................... sometimes hiding out in a car is the only option with a phone to get privacy if you can't in other ways. from what i read; you aren't really wanting to look elsewhere so you have to do what you can to make it work with your current T; while needing to remind all of you that she is doing the best she can and that this is hard for all of you; and it's ok to acknowledge the hardness