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I think you should just, and I hate to say this, but do what feels right. That is dangerous advice to give, but here I think it is a good plan. Doing what feels right can get you in big trouble so you must set limits for yourself such as not breaking any laws or hurting anyone. (without their consent) You could flirt with men because that is what society expects of you or you expect from yourself. There are so many possible reasons you act like you do, I would concentrate on the now opposed to what has happened in the past. If you like to flirt with guys, do. I you want to flirt with girls, do. If you want to flirt with girls in front of the men to drive them crazy, do.
And as soon as you are done playing with your ‘bean’ and thinking about women does the woman you fantasized about still turn you on? If immediately after you orgasm you are still attracted to women and like the idea of being with a woman, I feel, you would be safe in a physical relationship with a woman. Or you could have both girl and a guy at the same time. The girl for your pleasure and to make your dreams a real and a man to satisfy you need for ‘normalcy.’
Don’t think about it too much. Brains have ruined many a sexual escapade. Keep yourself safe and then just follow your heart. Wow that sounded sappy. Ok here try this……..Keep yourself safe and then just do what feels good. Well, that sounded dangerous. Now I am doing what I told you to avoid, overthinking.
Go for it!
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