Part of me very much so wants to reply with something very similar to that, but being in group therapy we were just learning about the whole 'opposite action' thing. So instead of going with the anger emotion and lashing out action, I just was civil and it actually made me feel better when I calmed down. I just said that it looked like we were far off on what we agree would be fair to end this, so we can leave it up to a judge. I do NOT want to wait another however many months this is going to take, but I cannot force her to take what I think is fair nor can I make court dates move faster. So I just have to survive this and I'll be better for it in the end. Still hurts to have someone who I thought loved me show that her love was very conditional on a lot of things. Oh well, that's why I am moving on.